嫁豪门

嫁豪门似乎是很多女生的梦想。让人大吃一惊的是，就连很多出生于富有家庭的女孩也有豪门梦。

是不是看了太多连续剧，这个世界哪来那么多豪门？

豪华的豪宅，名贵的汽车，手表，穿金戴银，养番狗，全身名牌，进出高级场所，在游艇和高级红酒，是我们一般人对加入豪门女孩的印象。

但是，事实好像未必如此。

如果一个人或与另一半通过本身的坚韧不拔，省吃俭用，毅力，一步一脚印才得以开创了一个“豪门”，这样的父母，对于孩子是有很高的期盼，因为希望孩子可以好好的把自己辛辛苦苦建立起来的事业王国继承并好好的经营下去。理所当然的当然会对自己的媳妇要求也高，学历高是基本的，为人成熟吗？沉稳？斯文？博学？态度等等必然是考量的范围，最好可以协助自己的儿子打理自己的事业。

好了，试问自己，自己经历千辛万苦，十几年拼了老命才有的江山，你自己会轻易的让一个外来的女孩轻易的分享吗？我想，你自己一定会问，她凭什么不用奋斗就可以享用老子自己拼回来的江山？天底下竟有如此之便宜之事？门都没！如果，那女孩自己条件不错，不需要用到家里的一毛钱，自己可以养活自己，好了过关。

问题来了，那有了孩子以后，那女孩肯不肯放弃自己的事业，专心在家相夫教子？女孩干不甘心放弃自己的事业，朋友和自由呢？犹豫了吧？

当然，如果你可以生儿子，给你一百万，女儿五十万，三十年后没离婚，又可以拿一亿元，跟我儿子离婚，一毛钱都没有。条件可以了吧，厚道了吧，考虑吧，别勉强，勉强没幸福。

如果可以，恭喜你，你可以嫁入豪门。一个设备齐全，豪华的监狱。女孩，你可以顶几年？摸摸良心。有舍必有的，没有免费的午餐。

重点来了，家里的金库钥匙是不会在你老公那里的，最常见的是在婆婆手里。你可以低着脸皮向婆婆要钱？你可以忍受老公还需要从自己婆婆手中拿零用钱过活？凡事都需要经过婆婆的同意才可以，包括自己的事情，老公也抓不了主意。

万一婆婆命又长！怎么办，离婚没了一亿。那唯有忍声吞气，我忍！老娘给它撑个三十年！

男人没钱都会搞鬼搞怪，更何况有钱，还要是含者金钥匙长大的，会不怪？上面不怪，下面都会怪吧！可以忍吗？可以，为了后面那一亿。

老实说，老公知道你是为了他家的钱而不是他的人才嫁他的，久而久之，也会看你不起。如果儿女长大了，也知道是这样，他们也应该会看不起这个老妈吧。

嫁入豪门，不如找有创造豪门条件的男生，有骨气，不窝囊，白手起家，有气概，英雄，不会活在妈妈阴影下，有事又不会逃避。重要的是，你有资格管他的钱。

那男人也会珍惜你，因为他知道你是欣赏，因为他的本事，潜能而嫁他，而不是钱，家，车等等。

女孩，梦想归梦想，别把事实搞错。

嫁给一个帮豪门开车的司机吧，有名车坐。你会说，那车又不是我老公的，有什么开心。那你嫁进豪门，又有哪样东西是你的呢？

想。

其实那么喜欢豪宅，或名车，那干脆嫁给一间豪宅或一家名车算了，并与他们产生爱情和繁殖下一代，我相信这样的结局也不错！

免费的午餐

天底下没有白吃的午餐。

如果你现在吃着免费的午餐，那是因为别人直接或者间接的为你付钱。

我们可以每天都可以在自己身边听到谁又被谁骗了多少钱，又或者在报纸上可以看到某某某又被什么所谓的“投资”公司骗了多少钱。

报纸，电视台或者电台每天都提醒我们要注意骗局。可是为什么还是有人会被骗？原因只有一个，贪！

如果有那么好赚的生意，奇怪，为什么那件公司不向银行贷款呢？银行不是最喜欢做风险低，利润高的生意吗？银行不会第一时间批准贷款吗？

那么为什么那些公司还需要邀请普通人投资呢？这么好赚的生意，银行又不贷款，那么不干脆向银行以外的投资机构兜售这个投资计划呢？为什么还要向那么多的投资者一个一个的慢慢卖这个计划呢？

这些所谓的投资计划，一定会告诉你他们每年可以有多少的保证回报，奇怪，他们拿什么来保证？我想如果连股神巴菲特都会烧到手，我想象不到还有谁不会烧到手。保证？谁看过有哪一棵树可以涨／长的于天同高呢？凡事都有限度，包挂回报率。

再来他们会带你们去参观他们的办公室，如果是正常的办公室还可以，如果是一间富丽堂皇的办公室，就很有问题。为什么呢？以一个投资者的角度来看，这间公司是在浪费股东的钱在一些无谓的装饰上，而不是把钱用在生产上。有问题吗？有，那些富丽堂皇的办公室是来蒙骗你的双眼的，让你对他产生信心。

再来，就会用名车，名人来说服你。这是最直接的方法。只要你努力，你就可以拥有！那些公司在利用你的虚荣心来影响你的判断。那些老老实实经营生意的公司，哪会舍得一抛千金呢？除非那年的业绩特别好，但也不会用来买车吧？给现金不是更实际吗？如果你努力，我就会拥有更多名车，指的是老板。继续努力！加油！明天会更好！

其实，来来去去都是在利用人的虚荣心，想创业的心态以及未来会更好的梦想来欺骗一些没有信心，自卑，懒惰，快速致富，炫耀的人，因为这一群人是最容易被影响的。

被骗，是与学历没有关系的，所以很多大学生或者医生或专业人士被骗，因为大学生或者医生或专业人士也有没有信心，自卑，懒惰，快速致富，炫耀的人。

要防止被骗的犯法很简单，记住，天底下没有白吃的午餐。

容我提醒各位，只有老鼠笼里的乳酪是免费的。

The only free cheese is in mousetrap.

谢谢。

Distorted value.

The area that involved in this topic is wide, we can discuss this from many aspect, such as psychology, human nature, education background, etc etc. I’m not discussing this like an expert or social pathology, but from my personal observation.

It is weird that we can see many people chasing branded stuff blindly, whenever there was a new branded shop open, we can see there were people lining out there, like they never saw branded shop before, this is a things worth to spend time to observe, because it might reflected our own generation’s value.

Why is that happened? We can penetrate this from many angles, just take the example we can easily found around us, people like to compare with other. Yes! If you still have no idea, I will tell you a place, college or university. People like to compare the brand, oh ya, the price of their clothes, shoes, or fashion bag. If you wearing the most expansive one, you win! You walk like under a spotlight, all people are gazing on you, and you could enjoy the vanity. But I would rather suggest them to spot by others not because the stuff they are wearing, but their academic performance. By the way, these people always tend to forget that university or college is a place to pursuit knowledge but not a place to have a fashion show. Despicable.

Some would like to compare what car they drive, this is even more ridiculous, come on dude, you are not comparing YOUR OWN CAR with others, but YOUR FATHER’S Car, please make it clear. I’m sure if we deprive their father from them, they are nobody, not to mention maintain a nice good car, their survival would be in doubt. 

You don’t have to tell me how rich your family are, because is your family money. The wealth your family own is just prove how good your father earning money’s skill, but not yours. Your earning money’s or surviving skill yet to be tested, so you have nothing to proud of. The more you tell people how rich your family is, the more you expose your family in danger, they failed to see this, and they don’t know what situation they put their family in.

Basically the people who carrying “distorted value”, I would called them “value distorter”, or “distorted value carrier”.  Value distorter normally is lack of confident; they need to show off something to others so that others will saw them. This is pathetic, how you spot them, it’s easy, and from the way they talk, they  will keep emphasis how rich THEIR FAMILY is or WHAT CAR THEY ARE DRIVING, it is like talking all external good things to empowered them, what they should do is they should do something to empowered themselves by their own!

Some of the value distorter’s life style is lavish, dine in fine restaurant, with wine, drive nice sport car, nice clothes, but wait, if we really check their bank account,  ahem, zero is ok, but mostly goes to negative, means debts. The question is, why do we need to indebted our self to get the life that we are not deserve, just because we can show off to somebody, do the math please, what you loss is more then what you gain. Yeah, they are value distorter. We , a normal human being will see their “bright side”, means that their lavish life, but we always ignored the “dark side”, like the face when they repay their outstanding credit balance, or to pay the installment, or the day they just eat instant noodles. If someone’s spending pattern does not according to their normal income, there must be a problem. Keep smart.

To be a high class people, beside of wearing expansive and branded stuff, you still have many to do, like knowledge, culture, thinking, manners. If everyone would be a high class people after wearing branded stuff and driving nice good car, then I think the dog outside of my house also can, as long as I buy them a piece of branded wear and carry it into a nice car, wow! Come on buddy, it is so easy; our social will have no lower class people.

You can’t stand the face some of them just because they think they are high class after wearing some branded wear, normally I will treat them like the monkey in the zoo, to have fun with, throw some banana to them, to see a monkey show, to kill time.

Do we really have free lunch in the world? Nope, you can found this “there are no free lunch in the world” and the front of some economics book. If someone tells you there will be a good investment, guaranty with XX% of return, beware, that might be a scheme. Even Warrant Buffett got burn sometime; I have no reason to believe that there is an investment with guaranty and stable return.  Why do we have so many people got schemed though the newspaper told us every day do not believe in this thing. Greed, I would say. What I would say is, let’s us go back to the most original way to accumulate wealth, do not dream get-rich-quick, come on! This is another kind of distorted value. We are losing the virtue that our ancestor has, save money, work hard, happy family.  

Value distorter also like to mix up the money and love. In the way they perceive the world, they think money can buy everything, like love. So , their strategy to get a girlfriend is easy, throw bundle of Ringgit into that girl, and they expect the girls will  go to them. Come on, if the girl come to you, is just because of your money not love. If someone throw even more money to the girl, the girl will leave and be with other man. Love is dealing with human, not stuff, you can buy LV, Audi with money but not dignity, love, companionship. 

Value distorter need time to understand this.

We can even seen the politician with distorted value, they thought they are the king, but they forget is the people who give them the power to take care of the country. Once they got elected, means the wealth come. If you like to be rich, don’t go to politic, do business, don’t tell me all bullshit, there must have conflict of interest. This is why there are so many leader or politician hardly to be convinced,.

We are losing all the virtue once we have, why, is that because we are “kia-su”, or afraid-to-lost? They should understand  beside of money, we still have money good things to do. If they can’t understand this, I could foresee, they are wasting their life. 

He is working; I’m travelling trip de Cameron Highland.

It was just a coincident occasion that we make this trip. I was bored in shop, therefore I went to Ah Mao’s shop to find someone to talk to as well as smoke to. Guess it was raining, he closed shop earlier than usual. Then we three, Ah mao Ah Ket and me went to Yam Cha at an old place. Ah ket mentioned about leaving and off to Cameron Highland tomorrow and he asked whether I like to join, without hesitation, I said yes, because I planned to follow him since the last time he mentioned about CH, and now I caught the chance.

Time passed so fast, after almost 18 hours, I called Ah ket, asked what time he was leaving. He said he was already leaving home and need to put something in Kampung Awah and buy some necessary before pulling off to CM. After this and that, we were heading to CM. It was fun along the way, unlike my previous trip to CH, this time; we were going there from Raub, another alternative to CM. Of course, two of us bullshit along the way, and by the time we were in Raub, Raub was raining, rather eerie and exciting feeling, I fully trusted Ah ket by his driving skill, he could send us the destination safely.

The fog is rounding the mountains, the sky was drizzling and Ah ket car keep pollute the environment. I was not pay attention to the time so I did not know how much time we have spent to get to our destination. Of course, the site was not located in any towns in CH, instead, It was in jungle! It took us almost an hour to get in there, without proper asphalt road, I was bumped in the car all along the way, and when u know how slope the mountain beside you was, your heart beat hit 120 per minute. Thanks to his reliable driving skill, I was there finally. I would finally recommend him to be a rally driver if he lost or retired his job.

I was stunned when I get out from the car! I was in jungle, and that was the place I will overnight. I saw one of his workers was burning wood outside the camp, just like in cold zone, and the other 3 of them came out from the camp and help us move the necessary into the camp. I was there with the guy who was burning woods, I guess he might be Cancer, I judged from the way his talked. The other one was busying arranging the food and stuff, another two talking with their boss, namely, Ah ket.

I could not remember their name, but as far as I knew, four of them are from different part of Indonesia, and they having problem to act as one. One of the oldest, we called him Pak Cik, been talked with Ah ket in his car for more then one hour, of course I supposed they are discussing about their project. I ate with the rest, and the burning-wood-guy still outside, so me and the rest of two had a late dinner nearly 9pm. It was beef soup, and I finished the food as fast as I can, why? It’s simple, because I’m hungry.  The food was not bad, and Ah ket was not bad too! He is a caring boss!

They placed several camps under a “big camp”, and the Indonesian workers told me, this boss is good not only giving them a small camp each, and a big camp to protect them from the wild. Finally Ah ket and the works were backed, and the burning-wood-guy came in as well, now their turn to have their late dinner. Strangely was, the other two leave the table and backed to their camp.

After dinner, I was asked to play card game, it was their favorite to kill times, but it was a brand new game to me, is a bit like majoh, it was fascinating and I fond to the game. Nearly 1am, all people were sleeping and me and ah ket were talking outside the camp till 3am then we back to the camp and we keep talking, guess till 330am.
At 5 am something, the cock that the Indonesians bought to be their food supply crowed, oh my god, I only slept for only 2 hours and now that fucking cock was outside and  crowed, fortunately ah ket came out from the camp and thrown some stone to the cock! I supposed I could have a good sleep afterward, but God know after 5 minutes, that cock came back again and crowed, ok, this time, I truly insomnia, and pray to God that the cock will die instantly, of course, my dream never came true. About 7am the cock stopped crowning and finally I’m able to sleep undisturbed until 9 am.

We woke up, and have a cup of milk tea, in fact, I could not have anything in that early, therefore I only had half of it, then we went into Ah ket’s site, another 2 more KM and of course, snake-liked road and bumped. He went to meet his workers and checked the progress. After that, the workers lead us to the Kampung Orang Asli, (Aboriginal village), it was amazing, and you would not know there is a village inside the jungle. Everyone was looked at us, and I felt like we are the invader who spying their village before conquered them.

One thing I can see is that, the Malaysian government is really taken care of them; the government built many infrastructures for them, including water and electric supply. They are unpolluted, and remain the original life of them, I suppose, there is the life human supposed to live in, no TV no night life, no heavy music, everything nature and belong to the natural. Maybe there was the last few virgin place that the so-called civilized people have not touch, I hope not ever.

We out the jungle and buy some other necessary for the Indonesian workers, in Ringlet. After that, we went to Tanah Rata, to have our lunch. It was a worthy lunch, RM15, 90; we have a western food, with steak, mesh potato, juice and salad. Then we went to Brinchang, Ah ket bought some vegetable like maize and sweet potato.

After that, we headed to BOH tea garden. At first, I thought we were going the tea garden with the modern building that extended outside from the mountain. But I was wrong, it was a colonial building, and I was kept looking for the modern building, I thought it was hiding somewhere else, and no! It was disappeared! Never mind that, we saw an arrow pointing to the peak of the mountain that we standing, it wirte “View Point”, Ah ket lead and walk toward to the viewpoint, it was a bit difficult for me because the stair was built along the mountain, but at that moment, you have no choice but to follow your friend who with unlimited energy. It took us 15 minutes, well, me and ah ket was amazed by what we saw! We were at the top of the mountain! The fleshy wind blowing my face, and I was actually relaxed! I was enjoying, same to Ah Ket. No skyscrapers, no shopping malls, no crowded, this moment, only belong to tow of us.

As I mentioned above, this is was an accident, because I never thought that we can make it so quickly. Indeed, I have learnt a few upon this trip.

First of all, I was slept in that camp, if you have no idea how cold and the environment is at the night, then you must not have idea how comfortable your room is. The Indonesian workers have no complain on this, in fact, they told me it was the best place that other bosses would not provide to them. If you have no idea how comfortable your room is, then you would not know how their life in the jungle was, and I’m not talking staying there like 1 or 2 days like me, but 2 or 3 months. No TV ,no phone call, no any entainment.

Second, when I talked to a cooker of a school in Kampung Orang Asli, he said, the aboriginal is not particular interesting in study, and they also wasted all the food he prepared to them.  I think they don’t like to study is because they need not to face competition there, otherwise, they must appreciate the opportunity very much. Sometime I’m wonder, is that wrong to have contact with the aboriginal, without know the outside world, they might keep the most natural of their life, after the intervention of the so-called civilized people, everything has changed. I would, of course not possible, to keep their original life, without any disturbing. Human, if they got everything granted, they would not appreciate, instead, they will appreciate if they got something with their own effort. I think the kids belong to the nature.

It was surprised that my hearts stayed unsettled when I was there. I always thought that I’m really belonging to the nature. I did not think much, I enjoy the bird chirping, and many voices that created by our nature. One thing I must mention here, when I look up, I saw many starts, they were like hanging above my head, can we really see that clear of starts in the city at night? I doubt it. We, the human are not independent; we are part of our nature. We are sharing the world with others animal or plant, but the self-fish human keep destroying to the nature, that provide them food and water.

When we were at the top of the mountain that called” Viewpoint”, both of us were really enjoy the wind, and both of us enjoy the view in front of us, mountains, broad-view, if not afraid the wind would got stronger and rained, I think I might have a nap on the floor! It was high, but fortunately I was there eventually because of Ah Ket keep moving upward.

After that, we both have a good tea time in a colonial-time building. We both talked a lot and act like somebody who have great achievement, and reminiscing. We got to said good bye to the nature after the teatime.

Hope that all people understand that human is part of nature; all of our living is depend on it, if we destroyed nature, means that we are destroying ourselves as well. Now we are able to enjoy the cold wind in Cameroon highland, but if we keep develop for more profit, I’m sure that we only can enjoy cold air when we are opened the air-con. Green, the color of nature, green is lesser and lesser, let us do something to contribute but not harm to the nature.

Song long and I will be back soon! I promise!

宇宙与人性 。（算了，还是别做老板吧！）

宇宙看起来是与人性毫无关联的东西，但在我看来，有极大的关联。

来，首先，我们来看看我们的太阳系。我们都知道我们的太阳系有九大行星，（ OK, 有些会说是八大行星，因为冥王星不是正真意义上的行星。但我们不讨论这些。）那就是，水星，金星，地球，火星，木星，土星，天王星，冥王星， 都是围绕着太阳转。太阳，太阳系里的大家长，不停地把温暖送给围绕她的行星，换来的是行星乖乖的绕着太阳行。那就是说，你要别人听你的话，你当然要给她温暖啊！换来的是他们心甘情愿的围着你来转，如果连这下都不懂，算了，别做老板了，因为你不配，你以为你成全你员工的一切，但事实刚好相反，

是你的员工成全你的一切。我还是第一次看见恒星环绕着行星来转。好玄！

当然，我们的太阳可以要那些星星围着他来转是有理由的，因为太阳自己可以生产阳光给别的行星，所以太阳要他们怎么转就就么转！要行星围绕一个不会自己发光的东西，哈！玩笑，没有这样的事。如果连这个都不会，算了，还是别做老板吧！

大就是一切？STUPID, NO!太阳系外面不只有多少比我们的太阳还要大多少倍的的恒星，但是大意味着什么？大意味着需要消耗更多的力量来发光，结果大的恒星会比较短命，因为没有东西可以燃烧了。反而一些红矮星可以烧的比较久，因为他们不大，而且他们会慢慢的燃烧。只有没有品味的人才会觉得大就是美，有品味的人更多的是看品质，而不是体积。一间不赚钱的大公司，和一间很赚钱的小公司，那个来的比较好？很明显，是后者。如果连这都不懂，算了，还是别做老板，每天嘴在讲，自己的性器官在爽。

我们的地球总是被我们人类不停地糟蹋，污染，贱踩等等的伤害，她也没有发出任何怨言，她只是默默地接受一切。要做老板就要像我们的地球学习，要做的是默默的接受一切的地球，而不是总是在抱怨的人，总是认为别人对你好是理所当然，对你不好就是不应该，妈的，什么思想？如果连这个都不会，算了，还是别做老板吧。

保护身边的人，是成人的行为，伤害身边的人是小孩的行为。如果连这个都不会，算了，还是别做老板吧！

我们的月球，他有资格说他说拥有的一切都是他自己找回来的吗？不能，因为我们的月球之所以存在是因为地球给他的，我们的月球是从地球分裂出来的。没有地球就没有月球。如果连这个都不会，算了，还是别做老板吧！

太阳会死亡，不错，但那是很远以后的事。太阳死亡之前，会变得很大，会把水星，金星，地球等等给蚕食掉，过后就爆炸……死亡。 这是一个很完美的例子，一个人自我膨胀的厉害，换回来的就是死亡。一点小成小就就张罗打鼓的让人知道，是不是自己的还不知道，久不久的，还不知道。不知道自己是在沙堆上起陈堡，祝你好运！如果连这个都不会，算了，还是别做老板吧！

对人要有礼貌，因为你上升的时候是踩着别人上的。但，别忘了，你沉下来的时候，会遇到他们的。算了，还是别做老板吧！

不是，或者是还不是做太阳的料，就给他做太阳是很恐怖的，因为他还不会去控制自己，就要控制别人。

不是，或者是还不是做太阳的料，就给他做太阳是很恐怖的，因为他会用他的热去伤害他身边的东西，而不是用他的热去温暖他身边的东西。

不是，或者是还不是做太阳的料，就给他做太阳是很恐怖的，因为没有从基本的学起，所以不懂行星要的什么热能。

如果不懂得这些，算了，还是别做老板吧！

其实每一个人都是一本书

一个人，当他生出来是，就好像一张白纸，每当那个人长大一天，就表示那个人在这个世界又多了一天的经历，让我用另一个说法来说吧；那就表示那个人生书本又多了一页，不管是好的，是坏的。

其实每一个人都是一本书，里面有太多太多的故事。我们身边的人其实就是创作的最佳题材，毕竟每个人走的路都不一样。一件事情，十个人，十个人都可以有不同的看法。只是有些人的人生路走的比较快，所以看东西比较透彻，有些则走的比较慢，还没看的那么彻，只是对于那些走得慢的人来说，到最后他们也会，只是他们需要的是时间来把东西看的比较透彻。

我曾经听过一句话，特别有意识，那就是，“一把剑，是需要被锤打几千，几万次才可以成为一把剑。”以此类推的话，我会把人生的经历比喻为锤，而人本生则为一把剑。经历，足以把一个幼稚的人，磨练的成熟。经历，足以改变一个人对事对物的看法，经历更可以让一个人变得更加老成，老练。经历也可以把一个人变得更加漂亮，有气质。经历会在人们的脸上散发出淡淡的忧郁，薄薄的感觉。

人生的经历，就好像森林里的每一颗树，因为它都是一个小宇宙，里面有太多太多的生物，只是我们肉眼看不到。每个人心里都有写不出的故事，说不出的感慨，有些事总是要慢慢的被人发觉，那才有意思。最开心的事，就是可以找到与你志同道合的另外一半，外表是其次，最重要的是两个人在一起，感觉是舒服的。

有着相同经历的人在一起，比较有共同的话题，那是叫“共鸣”，有共鸣才有相同的价值观，两人才可以有机会走到最后。素食般的爱情，缺的就是这些。当两个人还没了解对方时，就在一起，好像有点危险。有些人，我们看到的是，他们很快就在一起，我想，他们或多或少都有共鸣，或者是惺惺相惜。 在两个人认识的时候，你准备好了铲吗？慢慢的把他的故事给挖出来。

看着周围的朋友，个个都长大了，经历了爱情，友情或者是亲情的磨练，造就了经历，所以说，每个人多多少少都是“一个有故事的人”。几年前的他们，与现在比较，有了微妙的变化。经历，塑造了他们的人生观。这也决定了他们以后会走的路。

有些人，有些书读出来，会有开心的感觉，有些则有感慨。或许，一切都没有完美的，留有一点遗憾的人生，才漂亮吧。

找到了爱的人，要珍惜，因为，除了要共同照顾一个家外，他们还有一个更重要的任务，就是要为后面的人生，添加更美丽的章节，一直到离开人间的那一天。

有时间与身边的人聊聊吧！听听他们的经历，说不定对你会有帮助，更所不定对你会有所启发。

天啊！怎么今天有点浪漫主义的感觉！

病态社会

我们的社会生病了，我们的社会真的生病了。别的不说，就说每天翻开报纸，看到的新闻皆是让人看了心惊胆跳的，无不让人摇头的。读了那些新闻后，我开始怀疑我们住的地方跟地狱有分别吗？

这个社会，没错，是生病了，其实，回头看看，很多事情都是跟贪心，贪婪，虚荣感有关。现在的人，每天都在追求物质上的享受，我个人并不反对物质上的享受，但是，一旦你追求物质的欲望超越了你的能力，你就变成了，物质的奴隶，不晓得除了追求物质之外，我们，人还需要追求心灵上的安慰，才可以达到平衡。病态社会

谁又买了一辆新车，谁又搬了一间大家，谁又开了一间店，谁又赚了很多钱，谁又与谁在一起，老实说，干我屁事啊？繁华表面的背后，刻着无数的债务，谁人知道？谁人知道驾大车，住大家的背后是欠了银行多少钱。

现在的人，尤其是年轻人，个个表面看起来是风风光光，进出高级餐厅，穿着名牌的衣服，可是，有谁又知道他们背后欠了银行多少的卡债，俗话说得好“无债一身轻”，这一群年轻人是我国经济的一颗定时炸弹，不好。我们只是看到他们的表面，却没有问自己，以他们现在的收入，可以应付现在的开销吗？如果不可以的话，钱从哪里来？病态社会。

现在的人，价值观已经扭曲了。我们已经失去了我们祖先，或中华民族的美德，节俭，勤勉，脚踏实地，等等。可是，现在的年轻人，要的是，如何走捷径，快速致富，这就是贪心，他们不知道“天下没有白吃的午餐” 这个道理，有的话，也轮不到你吃，因为有免费的，我为什么还要让给你？病态社会。

欺骗，绑架，贪污，每天都发生，什么社会啊？人性到哪里去了？人性，人心。

一个稳固的经济是建立在一步一脚印的基础之上，这点，我尤其欣赏德国人，日本人或台湾人，不去搞什么投机活动，而是踏踏实实的为经济默默的做出贡献。这点与美国人不同，美国人在开国的时候确实有过这样的美德，不过他们现在的经济是建立在金融，也就是对实体经济没有什么贡献的工业只上。当然，美国还是有对经济有实在贡献的人，就好像刚去世的 Steve Jobs, 但他是少中又少的。说到台湾，王永庆就是最好的榜样！

不是你买不买得起 LV ，而是你配不配得起LV。会欣赏LV 的人，自自然然的就会买这些奢侈品牌的东西，欣赏这个品牌的设计，欣赏这个品牌的历史，欣赏这个品牌的时尚感，而不是追求所谓的虚荣感。有些人买得起这些奢侈品，就表示说你已经晋升到了所谓的上流社会吗?或者你就是有钱人吗？我很怀疑。很多人买的不是设计，品牌的历史，或者是时尚，很多时候人买的是价钱和别人的眼光而已。

就好像一些爆发富，买奔驰，或宝马，买的就是虚荣感本生。可是，会欣赏的人，买的就是科技，设计，或者是德国的文化，去感受尖端科技所带来的快乐，而不是别人的眼光。低俗！

看着别人有，自己也要有，这是什么心态啊？最重要的是量力而为，何必去给自己无谓的负担呢？金钱固然重要，但还年轻的我们也不可忘记经验，开拓视野的重要性啊。

人心被物质扭曲到不像样。看看我们的国家，君不君，臣不臣，强词夺理，眼中只有钱。要求人民勒紧腰带过日子，自己却在那边大笔大笔的花马币。让人看不起！

这个社会生病了，年轻人每天都过着糜烂的生活，夜店，饮酒，抽烟，还有吗？有几个会拿起书本，来粉刷乌烟瘴气的心理？有多少个年轻人愿意到郊外走走，去感受一下大自然，这个上帝给我们最好的礼物？这些，都是我们值得去省思的。是教育失败吗？这是题外题了。

朋友一言惊醒梦中人，原来这就是病态社会。